Monday, November 26, 2007

We are HOME!


I really have to start by apologizing for not keeping everyone better informed on what's been going on, but it's just been so crazy(even for us).

We left to NY on Sunday, and flew all night. The kids did great, probobly because we've instilled in them that the only appropriate thing to do on a plane is sleep, no matter what time it is. We drove to our apartment we were renting, and were greeted by a disshevled looking women with a six pack in her hands. IT'S 8 AM!! The place was a dump,there were shady people hanging out and smelled like cigarette smoke. We tried to tell her we just couldn't stay there, but she just wouldn't take a hint. We had about 10 suit cases between us all, it was freezing, and our appointment was in about an hour. This women drank 3 beers in the time she was talking to us, and got progressivly pushier about the whole thing. We finally said NO, and basically walked away, and had to search our another hotel witin walking distance, because it was either that or take 3 cabs around NYC searching for vacancy. The double tree was on the corner and happened to have what we needed for the week at a whopping $650 A NIGHT! At that price I think the least they could do is put out some muffins and coffee in the morning, or throw in some internet use in our room, but no, apparently nothing is inclusive in NYC.


It was a hectic start, but once we got settled in, things went very smoothly. On Monday night before Savannahs surgery we went to the giant ToysRus, and had a blast.


Savannahs surgery was 6 hours long without any complications. I read, and read, and read, to keep myself from thinking about anything really. (Those Stephanie Meyer books are really good time passers.)
Mark and the kids went to see the Empire State Building.

When she was finally done with surgery I was too squimish to hold her, so Mark held her while she came to. As I watched her wake up I couldn't help but think of all she's been through in her short life, and to think it's only the beginning, it just made me cry. Everyone kept asking "what's the matter, don't you think she looks good?" Even Dr. Cutting asked, and i kind of felt bad, because he did an awsome job. It's just hard to be excited, or even happy when you see your baby come out of something so painful.


I knew i should of kept up my blog even in NY, because now it's all a blur in my head, but the first five days or so were the hardest, she didn't sleep more than 30 minutes at a time, and she did have those uncontrollable crying spells a lot, but having Mark and my parents around made it bearable.

We did get to have some fun while we were there. We took the kids out to Central Park, and made a whole day of it. There's a carousel, an ice skating rink, and even a zoo there.


We saw the statue of Libery, and ground zero. We rode a taxi, the subway and a ferry. I learned how to properly tie a scarf, and now understand what it means to really be cold.


All in all our trip was everything we could of hoped for it to be, and are happy just to be home. Savannah's still wearing arm restraints, has to have saline put in her nose about every hour, and we have to tape the incision. but in about 4 weeks from now, we'll have none of that, and we can focus on just trying to "normal" for now. Her next surgery date is MAY 6Th (which also happens to be her birthday)and that's when she'll be having her palate closed.



Thank you to all those friends,family, doctors and staff who have prayed, fasted and been such a help to us. We know this was a group effort, and can't express the gratitude we feel in our hearts twords you. I hope you can look at Savannah and know that you have trully made a difference in her life and ours.

8 comments:

Stacey said...

Hey Fishers- your baby looks so great!! She looks so much like her big sister especially in the last picture. I am so glad that you guys have been able to get through this whole mess okay. That must have been such a comfort to have your parents with you. Is the surgery in May her last or does she have more to come? I know that Heavenly Father will make it all good in the end.- Stacey

Unknown said...

I love your update! Yeah! The pictures of NY are great. It looks like the kids did have a great time. I loved seeing you and hearing all about NY. Savannah is such a doll and she looks great. She has such an amazing spirit about her and is so precious! Your blog is awesome! Can't wait to hear more. Luv ya~

Rebecca said...

I've been checking often and am glad to see an update. Although, the stories about New York were definitely more interesting in person. Especially the one about your dad and the subway!

Savannah looks amazing. What a beauty.

King Klan said...

WOW! She looks so cute her eyes are even sparkling. You guys amaze me!

Scott and Christie said...

I'm glad the surgery went well! I finished the books, I swear I don't know who is worse right now Mark or Scott! Ugh I totally fell for the whole look outside and look at the moon(then they start howling). Glad to have you guys back! =)

Yvonne said...

YOU are an amazing woman! You have such courage, strength and grace. When I am having a tough day, I think about you and realize that my difficult day PALES in comparison to one of your EASY days. You are an inspiration! It was great to see you over the weekend and it was a joy to get to SEE Savannah!

Scott Van Vliet said...

Great to see you guys in NYC -- we had a great time :) And glad to hear that you're all home safe and sound; hope the flight attendants were a bit nicer on the way home!

Much love,

Scott & Sebrina

susy and martin said...

I finally got the chance to read all your blog. I'm glad your family found ways to have fun in NYC. I lived there for a summer (working for Columbia Univ.). NYC is a lot of fun (but could be "scary"). I'm so happy for Savannah. You are the best mother for her and Heavenly Father knew that.